This evening we had our traditional Sabbath dinner. One tradition that we choose to incorporate into our weekly observance is the making and consuming of Challah (a traditional Jewish braided bread). When we are blessed to have guests who are newcomers to our Shabbat table, I usually explain some of the traditions we observe, and what they mean to us. For instance, we light the Sabbath candles and talk about how Jesus/Yeshua is the Light of the World. We say a blessing over the bread (challah) and recall that Yeshua/Jesus is the Bread of Life. As a blessing is voiced over the wine or grape juice, we remember that wine in the Scripture represents both joy and blood, both of which we see in Yeshua as well.

After dinner was over and the guests had gone, the boys living at my house got on the phone with parents. The 7- year-old was on speakerphone with his father, who asked what he had been doing. Quite matter-of-factly, he replied. “Oh, we had our Sabbath, you know, and I’m eating some of the bread. We make bread every week and we put humans on it.”

WHAAAT??? Humans on the bread???? I couldn’t imagine where he could have come up with that! And then it hit me. Here is how I had explained to our guests, the symbolism we find in the challah.

The braided challah bread reminds us of the hills surrounding Jerusalem. We sprinkle the bread with sesame seeds which brings to mind the manna on the hills. We also traditionally have two loaves of challah to memorialize God’s provision of two portions of manna on the 6th day to provide for the 7th as well.

Ahhh, MANNNNA (man – humans!) He cracks me up!!!! 

And then there was this…

Day 20 of Foster Care Journey. It has been difficult. So difficult at times that I felt a disruption was imminent due to behavioral issues with the oldest. But tonight my heart was uplifted and I was reminded of why I do this.

Bedtime routine includes prayers, and if I forget, the youngest will always say, “Hey, you didn’t pray!” Sometimes he likes to pray. He says he likes short prayers and his are usually the same – “Thank you God for everything. Amen.” Tonight, he called me back when I started to leave the room, reminding me again. (Even though I had just prayed asking God to take the fear out of his mind and heart – but I guess he didn’t consider this a “bedtime” prayer). It is obviously important to him and something to which he was not acustomed. He asked me who should pray tonight and I asked if he wanted to do the honors. It went something like this. “Thank you God and Jesus for kids who don’t have daddies and kids who don’t have mommies and for dogs and flowers and trees and humans. Thank you for my bike and please make the ground flat so I can go fast. Amen. ………………………(Be still my heart!)

And Now I Know

Just a very quick update friends! So much has happened in the last 13 days. I took my first foster care placement just short of 2 weeks ago very late at night. Two brothers, 7 and 12. It has been very challenging but we have all survived so far. I believe things are beginning to turn a corner. Please pray for these boys, their parents, and me as we continue on this journey. THEY ARE WORTH IT! I have already learned a lot about children from hard places as well as challenges foster parents face. I see the pain in the children. I see their anger and their deep sadness. I see that they miss their parents terribly and even their dogs and cats. I see that they mourn because they can’t even tell their friends where they are. I see their anger. At present it may be directed toward me ,but I know. I know it is really anger at being awakened in the middle of the night to be taken to who -knows- where ,where they will be placed in a strange house with who- knows- who, not knowing if they will ever return home. I see their anxiety and triggers. I see the sheer TERROR that can erupt in the eyes of a 7 year old when he hears “If you boys don’t stop fighting, I’m going to have to separate you” – when, in his mind, “separate” means tear you apart from your brother! I understand just a taste now of the frustration of not being able to help. I know the incredibly strong desire to find the key that will help mend their hearts. I see. I know now. I know.


Thoughts on PASSOVER – In Spirit and in Truth.

(Probably about a 10 minute read. May be too much of an investment)

This is my 19th year of celebrating Passover! And the 19th year of NOT commemorating Easter! And yet, I am more connected to the death, burial, and resurrection of our Sacrificial Lamb, Jesus/Yeshua, than ever! How could that be? (1 Cor 5:7 – Jesus our Passover Lamb) (Note that He is nowhere referred to as the Easter Bunny, the Holiday Hog, or the Passover PIglet).

Well, on second thought, I guess it’s not so surprising that I would now be more connected to His death, burial, and resurrection. After all, He was crucified on Passover and arose 3 days later on First Fruits! (Mt 26, Mark 14, Luke 22, John 13, 1 Co 15:20)

I rarely post about my religious beliefs on Facebook because, for some people, it seems to be a hot button topic. It is not because I am ashamed of my convictions, nor do I harbor any doubts. I’m not going to lie. Back in 2002, it was not easy to hear that the traditions which I held so dear had their origins in paganism. What?!? And I certainly did not take this information lying down! I have always been a digger and, I can assure you, a thorough investigation was undertaken! As is often the case in any honest inquiry, there comes a time when a tipping point is reached. A point where the weight of the evidence has become so overwhelming that denying the facts would require making a conscious decision to live a lie! And, although that certainly would have been the easier route, it was one I simply could not take!

It breaks my heart when I hear something like, “Oh well, I’m covered by grace. If I’m wrong, He will forgive me.” You see, a sentiment such as this reveals that we have become spiritually entitled brats! Our focus is on ourselves and what we perceive that HE owesUS and not on OUR love for HIM! It would be akin to if our children, God forbid, were to walk out their lives in a way that made a mockery of all the values we had tried to instill in them. Although this in itself would absolutely shatter our hearts, that they remained unmoved by our pain would pulverize our very souls! While we cry ourselves to sleep, the children that we so love continue in their wicked ways. To them, our pain is of little importance because they know we will love them nonetheless! Oh, how it must shred the heart of our Father when we disregard His pain and continue on in a path that leads away from His loving instructions.

And yet, changing the manner in which I follow The Most High was not the difficult part! No! That was (and is) SO exciting! The Scripture was opened up to me in a way that it had never been before! It was suddenly in color and 3D! Things that had previously made no sense suddenly burst into focus! I understood more about His love for me and His Ultimate Sacrifice than the previous 40+ years of regular church attendance and involvement had been able to impart.

No, I do not mourn Easter and Christmas. Passover far surpasses any traditions of man (Mark 7:8) and continues to teach me ever more about our Passover Lamb. The Blood on the Doorpost reveals buried treasure about my own redemption and what it means to be behind the blood. Imagining myself marching out of my Egypt by the light of a full moon with death in my rearview mirror has provided fresh insight into what it means to be freed – redeemed! The old hymn, I Am Bound For The Promised Land, has taken on new significance!

When Easter eggs morphed into “Resurrection Eggs” with Scriptures inside and were marketed to Christians, I eagerly purchased a set. I sincerely believed I was honoring God.

Oh, woe is me. I am undone. What must it have done to His heart when I repackaged what was (and is) holy, encasing it in a pagan fertility symbol? Is it unforgivable? Of course not! Do I weep for the children who sat under my teaching as I eagerly encouraged the mixing of the holy and the profane? Ahhhh, yes indeed I do! (Eze 44:23)

No, the difficult part has not been walking in His holy ways! After all, once you know that you know that you know something, you just cannot unknow it! Oh, I still have very fond memories of family and friends around the Christmas or Easter table, of lovely Easter choir programs, beautifully clad church-goers, Easter egg hunts with gleeful children, and Christmas trees adorned with lights. However, it is the times around a table for which I weep.

That we were gathered together as family and friends who loved each other must have made His heart leap with joy. But, oh how I wonder if He wept bitterly as we affixed HIS name to a pagan celebration! I am so very grateful that, despite my many mistakes, He has given me this opportunity to walk out the Truth. Truth, after all, is essential, for HE is TRUTH! (Jn 14:6).

Alas, I do not like disappointing the people I love. I do not want them to imagine that I forego the opportunity to join them on these holidays because perhaps spending time with them has somehow become unimportant to me! However, as difficult as it is, disappointing people that I love and admire could never compare to the thought of offending my Holy God.

No, the transition from traditional holidays to Biblical celebrations was not taken lightly. Christmas and Easter were the two days I had considered most holy! Nor did I blindly accept any man’s word for it either. I didn’t NEED to, because the Scriptures are replete with warnings about adopting pagan practices. Once I began an objective investigation, this was an unavoidable fact! Researching the origins of Christmas and Easter is a simple task, if you have the stomach for it. (The History Channel has a great documentary on the subject on – Origins of Christmas).

Oh, yes, my friend, I know. And I have heard it more than a time or two. “But that’s not what it means to me.” And, of course, when I celebrated these holidays in the past, I was not intentionally bowing down to a pagan god. Nonetheless, the Scriptures instruct us not to learn the ways of the nations and not to worship Him the way they worship their gods. (Deuteronomy 12:30-31). Did you know that the Chosen People were first drawn away by going to the pagan festivals of the nations around them? (Numbers 25:1-3)

When it is discovered that I do not celebrate Christmas or Easter, people frequently become visibly uncomfortable. Yet, they rarely attempt to engage in a conversation. Their reaction is akin to the one I encounter when it becomes known that I do not eat pork or shellfish due to my understanding of God’s instructions. I’m not certain what is going through their minds, but people often abruptly change the subject or even make an excuse to leave! To my face, they say very little. Behind my back…. well, I hear things. I’m rather perplexed as to why it offends them. I wonder if they assume that I will be judging them when they DO partake of the ham or the shrimp. Believe me, that is the farthest thing from my mind! I long ago learned that I have neither the power nor the responsibility to change anyone other than myself. And I still have a lot of changing to do. I. am. a. full-time. job! I have no time or inclination to police anyone else! Nor do I try to preach or convince anyone of the error of their ways. The Holy Spirit does NOT need Jacquetta’s help!

I am eternally grateful that this is NOT the reaction of everyone I encounter! In fact, I am blessed with precious family and friends in my life who go out of their WAY to honor my convictions at dinners and other gatherings. However, by and large, their’s is not the typical response.

So, I wonder. Is the truth important to you? If so, do you have a determination to honor the truth regardless of the risk to your personal comfort? If you WERE to discover that something you are doing is offensive to a Holy God, would you change it no matter what the reaction of others might be? Even if it was bound to disappoint your children as well as your extended family, would you move forward? Despite the fact that people you love might suggest that you are in a cult or have lost your salvation? (Let that sink in! When you start honoring God’s Holy Word, people often do, in fact, believe that you are hopelessly lost! I know that might sound like a joke, but it is sadly true! )

Would you remain galvanized to God’s truth if it meant you would no longer be welcome in places and with people with whom you were formerly close? How important is walking in the truth to you? Would you be so bold as to put the Christmas tree on the curb and throw out the easter eggs? Does even the thought of it make you so uncomfortable right now that you are about to click away from this post? OR…. Does simply the possibility of offending the Author of your faith make you feel queasy?

It is not uncommon for someone to offer that the pagan roots are known, but, again, “that’s not what it means to me” and that these traditions have now been “Christianized” and point us to Christ.

To test the theory that this is acceptable, let’s imagine you had an abusive husband in the past, a truly evil man. BUT he was handsome! AND he was charming! Thankfully, you finally got away from him, and, in time, you met and married a truly godly man. However, on his birthday, you prepare your FIRST husband’s favorite meal. You even change the celebration of your current righteous husband’s birth to the date your first husband was born. AND, you often call your current husband by, you guessed it, the first husband’s name. Do you think he MIGHT take a bit of offense? I mean, he loves you dearly, but MIGHT it cause him to question your love for him?

If this discussion, or anything else with which you have come into contact, has raised questions in your mind and heart, will you search it out? Even if it is merely to prove me wrong, will you do it? Shouldn’t you? And if you would like some help, I would be ever so happy to volunteer. At the least, I could supply a rather long list of Scriptures I have compiled during my own search. Will you be like the people of Berea in Acts 17:11 and check out what you have been taught (even if your teacher is someone you trust? Say, someone like – Paul?) That’s what the Bereans did! They compared what Paul said to the Holy Word of God. (Which, by the way, was ONLY the Old Testament at the time!) Will you do that? Is there anything or anyone we should put our trust in more than the Holy God-breathed Word of God Almighty??

Did you know, for instance, that the only time the word “Easter” appears in the King James translation occurs in Acts 12:4? And just a TINY bit of digging will reveal that the original Greek word translated here as Easter is actually Pascha Passover???

Do you imagine that when you meet your Maker, and He requires you to give an account of what you have and have not done in the flesh, that you can lay the blame at the feet of a church or a pastor? (2 Cor 5:10)

1Th 5:21 Prove all things; hold fast that which is good.

Perhaps you are confident that the results of your research will prove consistent with your current beliefs, and I am, in fact, the one walking in error. In that case, PLEASE contact me with the Scriptures that will open my eyes. I will take it seriously! I certainly do not want to walk in error! And PRAY for me! I always cherish prayers to the God of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, and Paul! And I, in turn, will pray for you.

Joh 4:23 But the hour cometh, and now is, when the true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth: for the Father seeketh such to worship him. 24 God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.


I posted the other day about our Bible study’s discussion regarding COVID-19 and how we saw it, not as a reason for panic, but an opportunity to be an agent of peace and light.

But, lest someone think we are standing in Wal-Mart daring COVID-19 to touch us, I feel a need to also share some of the rest of the discussion.

We discussed being wise. We encouraged each other not to act recklessly. We recalled Jesus/Yeshua’s time of temptation by Satan, who dared Him to throw Himself down from the pinnacle of the temple because, after all, God would not allow Him to dash His foot against a stone.

His reply- “Thou shalt not tempt the Lord thy God.” (Matt 4:5-6)

Trusting in God does NOT mean you can stand in the middle of a busy highway and dare the 18 wheeler to hit you because you think God has an obligation to protect you! And the same goes for recklessly exposing yourself to the coronavirus! God has no such obligation! This is not trust! This is recklessness! The Scripture makes it clear that we should be wise.

Proverbs 22:3 ESV

The prudent sees danger and hides himself, but the simple go on and suffer for it

Proverbs 14:15 ESV
The simple believes everything, but the prudent gives thought to his steps.

So, along with being pandemically kind, we also want to exercise wisdom in not being reckless with our behavior. For us, that means avoiding crowds and public places when possible, and being sensitive to the fact that, although we may not contract the virus ourselves, we could carry it to someone who then might become ill!

Ephesians 5:15 ESV
Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise


Today, at Bible study, of COURSE Coronavirus came up! But, I am happy to report that the conversation did not center around fear or panic at all! Instead, the focus was on the great opportunity we have to dispel darkness with light, to counteract fear with peace, and respond to a save-yourself attitude with an offer to help.

What an opportunity to give our neighbor a package of Charmin, allow the stranger behind us in the long line at the register to go in front of us, and to pick up the last Clorox wipes on the store shelf only to then hand them to the person who looks upset and frightened. And, even if we are confronted with anger or rudeness, we can respond with kindness and understanding. We have the most awesome opportunity to be pandemically contagious with love, peace, and selflessness. I was so impressed with our little study group!

May we go forth and recklessly expose everyone we encounter to the love with which we have previously been graciously infected!

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. John 14:27

COVID-19 – God does NOT “got this!”

You know, I really have felt that the COVID-19  “pandemic” has been greatly overblown. And, to a great extent, I still do.  That being said,  I overheard a conversation in court today that offered another perspective. The speaker noted that, in many cases, those making a run on the stores and stockpiling, are doing so, not  because they fear contracting the disease, but out of a concern that shipments from China and other suppliers might be disrupted for a time.  Others are alarmed about the possibility that they may be required to lock down, leaving them unable to access supplies.  This was a perspective that I had not considered. Perhaps a little extra TP is not such a bad idea.

BUT, early one morning while praying, something else came to my mind.  I was petitioning the King of Kings on behalf of several people that I  love dearly. Each is going through stormy seas currently. Some are dealing with financial challenges while others have marriages in peril. And still others are experiencing serious health concerns. I was struggling somewhat with knowing what I could “suggest” to an Almighty Creator!  I defaulted to the Lord’s prayer – THY kingdom come.  THY will be done!

KINGDOM – a place where HE is King, and all others are subservient.  A place where HE makes all decisions for the benefit of His subjects!

I thought of the many times I have heard (and sometimes said)  “God’s got this!” But now I’m not so sure!  You see, it’s not that “God’s got this.”  It’s really not!  Quite frankly, many with strong faith would have to concede that numerous petitions, even when requested with perfect faith, have gone unanswered or denied. The crux of the problem lies in the fact that, although we absolutely believe that the God Who stopped the sun, split the sea, sent a large fish uber to transport a prophet, and raised the dead is ABLE to solve ANY issue with which we are faced – we are not so sure that He WILL! Our experience tells us that sometimes He does not, and besides, do we really deserve it? Didn’t we get ourselves into this mess in the first place?

So here’s what might sound like REALLY bad news – God does NOT “got this”  (at least not in the way that we might think of it). But, here’s the GOOD news – nor does He need to!  

God does not need to “got this” if God’s got YOU!   There is no need to run from trauma to trauma and stressor to stressor wondering if He will act on your behalf!  He will ALWAYS act on your behalf if He owns you! But acting on your behalf may at times not look like what you would have imagined or chosen! Stress, trauma, and stormy seas provide classroom time allowing plenty of practice in the discipline of turning ALL over to His kingship. You see, God has a vested interest in providing for and protecting that which He owns. On the other hand, as long as WE retain ownership, those responsibilities are ours!

If we believe He is sovereign, then we must admit that He has allowed us to be in this place at this time.  AND He has also allowed the dreaded coronavirus!  With that in mind, let’s take a look at this!

In all things give thanks, for THIS is the will of God in the Messiah Yeshua/Jesus! (1 Thes 5:18)

Could it be that the word THIS in the above passage refers not to the giving thanks, but to whatever the “all” is? As it relates to COVID-19, we would have to say – In all things (including coronavirus) give thanks, for this (the coronavirus) is the Will of God!

After all, if we believe He is omniscient, then could we possibly imagine that COVID-19  has taken Him by surprise? Do we suppose that He is pacing the floors of Heaven, wringing His hands, wondering “what are my people going to do about COVID-19?”   

If we surmise that He is omnipotent, then we must acknowledge that He is able to put an immediate stop to the coronavirus and, in fact, could have disallowed its dissemination in the first place!   

If we agree that He is sovereign, omniscient, and omnipotent, and yet He did NOT stop this pandemic, can we also believe that He is good?

GOOD– Just as with any good parent, our Heavenly Father considers FUTURE implications when approving or denying requests. I am SO very thankful that He did NOT respond to many of my short-sighted petitions in the way that I would have wished. Oh, yes He is good! His concern is not so much with our temporal comfort and happiness; but with our eternal gain! When we were a baby, we did not understand why our parents would not allow us to play with the electrical outlet, but it was their love and determination to protect that demanded that they deny our wish. When we were a toddler, we screamed and kicked as they pulled us away from the street. Loving? Why, yes! And as a teenager, their decision to ban us from running around with that older group seemed simply controlling and out-of-touch with the current times. Ah, but they could see things that we could not. Good parenting indeed!

Once we have established within ourselves that God is not only, sovereign, omnipotent, and omniscient, but always good as well,  then must we come to the conclusion that somehow, someway, this too, (COVID-19) is designed to profit us? But, how? 

At least one way comes to mind.  Oh, of course, He wants us to be wise, and perhaps we should put bags of beans in our pantries and TP in our closets. We should take lots of vitamin C and get plenty of rest.  But, at the end of the day, His desire is for us to be satisfied with the knowledge that, should He choose to leave us IN the storm, it is the storm that we need, and He will see us THROUGH it! He’s got you!  I believe He wants us to practice believing Him in all things and at all times. I believe He wants us to work out our spiritual muscles, standing firm in the knowledge that His choices for our lives are FAR superior to anything we could choose for ourselves. He’s got you!

Times like these are powerful spiritual purifiers and sanctifiers.  Far superior to any diffused essential oil, He provides THE  truly ESSENTIAL Oil!   Yes, He could stop the Corona storm tomorrow, but if He doesn’t —

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil for You are with me! Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me! (Ps 23:4)

 Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.( Isa 41:10)

Cast all your cares upon the Lord, for He cares for you!  (1 Peter 5:7)

EXTREME MAKEOVER 7 – Spiritual Edition – PURITY

WHATSOEVER THINGS ARE PURE – The word translated as pure means clean, modest, perfect, chaste.   In the days in which we live, it is becoming more and more difficult to bring something to mind that could be considered PURE.  Even when considering children, it is now only the VERY young whose minds have not yet been polluted by the impurity that surrounds us. Our society is constantly inundated with the impure from every quarter!  It is next to impossible to keep decidedly RAUNCHY material from flowing into our homes, cars, workplaces, and even our WATCHES,  multiple times throughout the day via social media, television, and internet! 

Innocent children, with no intention of accessing explicit material are being subjected to it at every turn.  Parents have become so desensitized to sexually charged media that they think nothing of allowing their toddlers to be exposed along with them. Think it will not harm them?  Think it will not harm you?   Think again!

Take every thought captive and make all thoughts comply! Give your children the great gift of teaching them to do the same!  Do a spiritual cleanse, asking the Holy Spirit to remove anything from your mind, heart, and spirit that would not align with His Word. Into the construction dumpster they must go!!  Go through your social media, your movies and your games as well as those of  your children. As we continue our Extreme Makeover, these inferior materials will compromise our whole project if allowed to stay. They are riddled with spiritual termites bent on destruction!

You can do ALL things through the Messiah Who gives you strength!   

Today, take note of how many times you are exposed to things of an impure nature.  Make it your mission to protect your mind and spirit from the unclean. And, out of love for your children, make it a top priority to protect them as well! As always, the best way to teach our children is to lead by example!

Take on the challenge of searching out and writing down 5 pure things to meditate upon this week and force your mind to comply. The Scriptures below would be a good place to begin!

1 John 3:3 All who have this hope in him purify themselves, just as he is pure.

Psalms 12:6 And the words of the Lord are pure, like silver purified in a crucible,  like gold[a] refined seven times.

Pro 30:5  Every word of God is pure: he is a shield unto them that put their trust in him.

Pro 15:26  The thoughts of the wicked are an abomination to the LORD: but the words of the pure are pleasant words. 

Psa 119:140  Thy word is very pure: therefore thy servant loveth it.

Psa 19:8  The statutes of the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart: the commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the eyes.  Colo


Whatsoever things are JUST – innocent, holy –

Remember, we are in the midst of building a renewed structure.  We have begun with the building blocks of truth and honesty. We now will pick up whatsoever things are just and add it to the structure.

As you go through your workday or your playday, think about being innocent and holy (set apart for  God).   Is your speech true and honest? Can it be said of you that you are innocent, and holy in all of your ways?  What about  your thoughts?  

When evaluating to see what must be torn down and what can be salvaged, it will be necessary for you to examine not only where you go and the friends you hang out with, but what you watch, and what and who you listen to as well!  Sin is like a deadly germ.  When you come into contact with it, it begins rapidly multiplying even though you cannot see it.

Is there anything salvageable, or must everything go into the construction dumpster?   Remember, in this process of renovating your mind, heart, and spirit, we only want to build using the finest materials!

This week, as you meditate on truth, honesty, and being just, use the germicide of the Scripture to cleanse you of the old grime which desires to hang on and make you spiritually sick.

Luke 1:17 New American Standard Bible (NASB)

17 It is he who will go as a forerunner before Him in the spirit and power of Elijah, to turn the hearts of the fathers back to the children, and the disobedient to the attitude of the just, so as to make ready a people prepared for the Lord.”


Php 4:8  Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things,

Having covered  “truth” in the first part of this Makeover series, we are now ready to move on with our renovation project.  As we proceed, it is essential to note that we do not put down truth in order to pick up honesty.  Honesty is a continuation of what has already begun with truth.   

Honesty?   Aren’t honesty and truth synonymous? If so, why does the Holy Spirit list them both in Scripture?

TruthHonesty.  What distinguishes one from the other? Knowing that Scripture does not “stutter,” and every word is purposeful and meaningful should compel us to investigate. Checking any good  Bible dictionary will reveal that it is the Greek word semnos, which has been translated into English as honesty in the above verse. It is defined as grave, venerable (accorded a great deal of respect, especially because of age, wisdom, or character), honesty.  

A quick search for other occurrences of this Greek word in the Bible uncovers only three additional verses.  This would not be obvious if we were simply reading our English Bibles, because the translators have chosen to translate semnos using different English words or phrases.  Perhaps a look at these verses may help us understand what honesty is, as well as what it is not!

1 Timothy 3:8

In the same way, deacons[b] are to be worthy of respect (semnos), sincere, not indulging in much wine, and not pursuing dishonest gain.

We can see that the same word translated as honesty in Philippians 4:8 has been rendered as worthy of respect and sincere.  This verse also reveals what it is NOT  honesty. Indulging in much wine and pursuing dishonest gain are NOT honesty!

1 Timothy 3:11

In the same way, the women[c] are to be worthy of respect (semnos), not malicious talkers but temperate and trustworthy in everything.

Now, we can add that an honest person does not talk maliciously and is trustworthy in everything.

We find our last verse in Titus 2:2

Teach the older men to be temperate, worthy of respect (semnos), self-controlled, and sound in faith, in love and in endurance.

Temperate (safe in mind), self-control, sound in faith, sound in love and endurance are characteristics of an honest person.

It is essential to investigate what the Scripture means by a word or concept rather than accept what the world says.  For instance, in days past, it would not have been necessary to define “worthy of respect.”  It almost always would have been understood to be connected to high moral character. Today, such is not the case.  “Respect” is often given to the person who makes the most money,  raps the best rap, plays the best game, has the most friends, likes, streams, etc. It is not at all based on a code of moral ethics, and certainly not on Scripture.

Interestingly, the way the Scriptures define honesty and the current legal definition differs significantly.  Are you aware that an attorney is required to be honest but has no such obligation to be truthful?  Now, if you find that difficult to reconcile in your mind, you are not alone!  Stated another, perhaps more alarming, way – an attorney is prohibited from telling a lie (he must be “honest”). However, he is NOT required to seek or bring out the truth.  

Let me offer this brief fictitious illustration of honesty vs. truth in our legal system, and I believe you will instantly understand why attorneys desire to limit witness responses to a simple yes or no.


A year after an “alleged” victim reports having been brutally attacked in her home, the case has finally come to trial. The defendant’s attorney approaches the witness stand to question the victim. 

Isn’t it true, Ms. V,  that you did not initiate a police report on this alleged assault for over two months following the date you allege it to have occurred?  Answer yes or no, please.

Yes, but…

Now, Ms. V, I must remind you that these questions are yes and no ONLY  questions.

And isn’t it also true that you spoke to no one of the supposed assault during those two months?  In fact, you did not even call your mother or father for support during what would have been an extremely challenging time?  Answer yes or no.

(sigh) Yes.

And was that because my client made threats to you during that time? Yes or no, please.


Okay, no further questions.

This does sound a bit suspicious, doesn’t it?   Is the supposed victim out for some sort of vengeance against a spurned lover? Why would she wait so long to report such a supposedly vicious crime?

   JUDGE – Your witness, Mr. Prosecutor

Okay, Mrs. V.  I know today has been very difficult for you. I do need to ask a few more questions, however.   

Now, the counsel for the defense has pointed out that you made no attempt to report this vicious assault for more than two months.  Would you please explain to the jury the reason for such a delay?

Yes, sir.  Following the attack, I was found by my daughter, who called 911. I don’t remember it, but I’m told I was lying in a pool of blood and was unconscious.  I remained in a coma for 63 days.  And even when I woke up, I had no recollection of what had happened.

No recollection at all?  Can you tell the jury if you were given a medical reason for this lapse of memory?

Yes.  The doctors say it was due to blunt force trauma to the head, causing excessive bleeding and  swelling of the brain.

When did your memory return?

A few days after regaining consciousness, I began having brief flashbacks. But it wasn’t until the detectives were cleared by my doctors to interview me, and they showed me pictures of someone they said was me lying on my bed that the flashbacks became more vivid and frequent.

What do you mean “they said” it was you?

The lady in the pictures didn’t look anything like me!  She was covered in blood and bruises. Her face was a mess, and her eyes were swollen completely shut.  She barely looked human! I simply could not believe that it was me!  I mean, I knew it was me. It was just bizarre to see how I looked!

Did you, at that time, provide the detectives with the name of the defendant?

No, I didn’t know his name. They returned a couple of days later with a photo lineup. As soon as I saw his face, I began to shudder and even threw up.  The nurses had to give me a sedative.

Okay, Ms. V. So, while the defense attorney was correct when he said you did not report this crime for more than two months and did not speak of it to family and friends,  the fact is that you were so severely injured that doing so would have been impossible. In fact, you were comatose!

Yes, sir.

Thank you for clearing that up, Ms. V.

Do you see how the defense attorney’s insistence on yes or no answers resulted in honest answers (not lies) but failed (by design)  to elicit the truth??  Note that the defense attorney did not lie.  Ms. V did NOT make a report for 60+ days. She did not call her parents or friends.  However, the defense attorney was NOT seeking truth and in fact, would not ALLOW the victim to disclose the truth.

Now we can understand that this modern version of “honesty” is NOT what the Scripture is instructing us to meditate upon.  We began with truth, and now we add to it honesty (worthy of respect).

This week continue meditating on truth and add to it honesty.  Check your behavior.  Does it demonstrate a desire for a character that is worthy of respect, not being malicious or greedy? Does it display Biblical honesty?  Are you growing in truth as well? Continue tearing down the old structure and building the new.  Remember, you are a new creation and renovation is underway! \lsdlock